This form of grief can bring the trauma trifecta—relief, sadness, and guilt. Key points: The grief that comes with losing an abusive person is complex. It is normal to feel a range of emotions and feelings when an abusive person passes. Relief, sadness, and even guilt are common, but some survivors experience other emotions—all are normal. Sheila hung up the phone, her face displaying the feelings she felt unable to express aloud. Her wife stood at the sink, dish only partial